Great Ways to Spoil and Pamper Your Spouse Romantically

Romance doesn’t always involve candy and flowers. Sometimes it’s small things that make your loved one believe that you are truly glad to have them in your life. Take some time to put some thought into how you want to pamper your significant other and then do it!

But if you need some ideas, we have a few for you!

Most people have music that means something to them. Even if you don’t have a favorite song, surely you can think of some type of music that means something to you.

Remember making mix tapes of your favorite songs when you were a kid? Do that for your husband or wife. Pick out a few songs that make you think of them and burn them to a CD or record them to a cassette. Pick out songs that will tell them how you feel about them.

Need a little help? Here are a few suggestions:

• “Wing Beneath My Wings” by Bette Midler

• “If I Don’t Have You” by Whitney Houston

• “The One” by Elton John

• “You’re Beautiful” by John Mayer

• “Because You Loved Me” by Celine Dion

• “My Best Friend” by Tim McGraw

• “Can You Feel The Love Tonight” by Elton John

• “I Love The Way You Love Me” by John Michael Montgomery

• “Wonderful Tonight” by Eric Clapton

• “Forever and Ever, Amen” by Randy Travis

• “When You Love Someone” by Bryan Adams

• “In Your Eyes” by Peter Gabriel

• “Truly, Madly, Deeply” by Savage Garden

• “Amazed” by Lone Star

Even if none of these songs have any significance to you and your partner, imagine how please they will be to know that you picked all of them out just for them to show how much you love them?

Need some more romantic ideas? No problem!

So often, guys – and even gals – go to the video store to rent a movie for you to watch as a couple. Now, guys have a different kind of entertainment in mind than girls do. No, I’m not talking porn, I’m talking about those action flicks that girls find – well, a little yawn inducing.

On the flip side, gals like to watch the romantic comedies where everything works out in the end and the guy gets the gal, etc., etc. Guys find THIS type of movie more than yawn inducing; they can often find a movie like this positively excruciating!

Where you make amazing romantic points here is when you pick out a movie just because you know your spouse would love it – even if you will hate it. I’ve done this countless times – rented a movie that I know I have no desire to watch, but I know my hubby will.

Then you get additional points when you actually sit through the whole movie without falling asleep. Want to really impress your mate? Talk about the movie without rolling your eyes! You’d be surprised at how much it might mean to them! What this says is that you actually care that they like something you don’t, but you’re willing to give it a chance because you love them that much!

You know those sweet things you think of when you are together or when you’re apart and just thinking about your honey? Well, next time a thought pops in your mind, voice it! Girls especially love to know what wonderful things go on in the inner workings of their guy’s minds, so chances are, guys may also enjoy a few catch phrases.

Pick up the phone and let them know what that thought was! Who knows? It could lead to much, much more!

Spend time with his or her family. The seriousness of a relationship can sometimes be gauged by how one interacts with his or her partner’s family. Spending time at your honey’s family’s home can also serve to strengthen your relationship.

Snuggle up and take a nap together. There is nothing quite like falling asleep and waking up in the arms of the one you love.

Play romantic music and dance together. Slowly dancing around the room to a favorite song can mean so much more when it is completely unexpected.

Go on a picnic! Gather your favorite foods, drinks and desserts, a comfortable blanket and some utensils, plates, cups and napkins and head out for the park on a beautiful day. Go for a walk in the park while you are there and enjoy all of the nature around you.

My husband did this for me once, and it was an amazing experience! He picked me up from work on my lunch hour and we went to the park where he pulled out a basket filled with my most favorite foods.

We spent the whole time feeding each other and really talking like we hadn’t done in a very long time. It was amazingly erotic, and let me know that he really did notice what I liked and what was important to me!

Carry his or her photo in your wallet. Keep your sweetie present at all times by putting a photo of him/her or the two of you together in your wallet, at work, in your car or wherever you think you would most like to see it.

When your husband or wife sees that you care enough to carry you with them, it’s a beautiful feeling to know they are proud of you and want to show you off – even when you aren’t there!

Bring your sweetheart to visit places you came to know and love in your childhood. Parks, playgrounds, the zoo, pumpkin patches, museums, amusement parks, beaches, boardwalks and any other attractions that you enjoyed as a child can bring back happy memories to share with your significant other.

When you share with your partner, you give them a portal into your heart. By giving them your memories, you are saying it’s alright for them to remember them with you. There’s nothing more romantic and more intimate.

Share your daydreams. Whatever makes your heart soar at thoughts of the future, consider sharing those ideas with your special one. Daydreaming together can be a very romantic and emotional experience, whether it is fully in jest or in a degree of serious contemplation.

An added perk to sharing your daydreams is that you are giving your partner a way to know exactly who and what is valuable to you. Who know – maybe your spouse will want to make that daydream a reality!

I am a huge fan of massage as a way to connect or re-connect with your spouse. Sure, you can rub your own shoulders, but it’s just not as electric as when the one you love puts their hands on your body to knead your sore muscles into ecstasy.

Don’t have a clue on how to do it? Well, let’s give you some tips. After all, that’s what we’re here for!

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